Even the most confident guys can have doubts and anxieties when it comes to talking to members of the opposite sex. If you ever feel this type of anxiety around girls, it's actually very common. One of the keys to knowing what to talk to girls about, in addition to staying as relaxed as possible, is to figure out some conversational topics in advance.
Introduce yourself first. If you notice someone you'd like to get to know better, take the important first step of making the introduction. If you know her from school or work, be sure to mention that.You can ask what she's currently studying or working on, ask where she's from, and how her day has been going. Keep the initial contact easygoing and brief.
If the introduction goes well, the both of you should be a little more relaxed and at ease, and the conversation will begin to flow more naturally. Women also find fashion interesting, so you can always compliment her on something she's wearing and ask where she got it, because you think your friend might love something like that as a birthday gift. Talk about vacations, favorite foods, good movies, current events, pets and animals, holidays, even other people. Share funny stories. Laughter and a sense of humor are always appreciated.
Find out what is most important to the girl, and then get her talking about the topic. This will take some of the pressure to keep the conversation moving off of you. Bring up a question or an idea, and let her talk about what she thinks.Maybe she is passionate about politics. If so, follow the latest news from the presidential race or a hot legislative topic and ask her opinion on it.Maybe she's into sports, or has a favorite team.This could be another fun opportunity to start a conversation. Maybe you both have a favorite team in common, or you can create a "friendly rivalry" if you're fans of opposing teams.Find out if she enjoys cooking, or if she has any favorite restaurants in the area. Tell her about a new restaurant that just opened up in your neighborhood. You can ask her to dinner right then, if you feel there's a nice chemistry between you and her.
Another effective conversational topic is siblings/family. Everyone has younger brothers that torment them, or older sisters that inspire them.If she is an only child, you can still relate to her about parents who just don't "get" their kids sometimes, or a favorite aunt or wacky uncle.I like to share some funny (and somewhat embarassing) stories about my childhood, because this gives the girl the sense that I'm sharing personal stuff with her, opening myself up, and even displaying some vulnerability. This encourages her to do the same.If you're a fan of a particular sitcom, see if she likes it too, and you can mention how one of your family members -- or one of the funnest episodes -- reminds you of your own family.
The bottom line is, figuring out what to talk about with a girl is pretty easy if you do a little bit of advance planning. Coming up with interesting things to talk about with a girl really isn't as hard as you may expect. Girls also really want to feel like you are being sincere and genuine when you talk to them. They are not impressed with bragging or ego. Making yourself a little vulnerable with funny stories and honest conversation will go a long way. They want to talk to a real person, not an invented superstar.
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